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Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends, 3rd Edition (Rebuilding Books; For Divorce and Beyond) (平装)
by Bruce Fisher
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Relationship, Marriage, Self help |
| Market price: ¥ 198.00
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¥ 168.00
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Healing, uplifting, and empowering, Rebuilding is one of the top references dealing with the pain and trauma of a relationship that has ended as well as the rebuilding of the life.. |
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Robin Berry (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-10 00:00>
This book was the BEST thing I have read since beginning my divorce process. I feel like I have progressed so rapidly thanks to the information and practical advice found here.
The writers guide the readers on HOW to change "stumbling blocks" into "rebuilding blocks". It's not full of over-your-head psychobabble. Very practical exercises to help you analyze the process of coping with divorce.
One exercise I particularly benefitted from was the "goodbye letter" to your former spouse. It is not intended to be sent to them, but rather as a healing exercise in which to let go of all the facets of your dead relationship...good, bad and ugly.
This book helps you to recognize the mixed emotions that go along with such a life changing event. You Can Survive! In fact you can THRIVE! Learning how to be single again is tough after being married (whether things were good or bad), but it can be the best experience of your life! Read this book and recommend it to all of your divorced friends! |
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An American reader (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-10 00:00>
I cannot even begin to explain how much this book helped me through a very emotionally painful divorce. I actually read and worked through it in a couple months and just recently, after a year, have started working my way back through it again. It is unreal how much I have progressed. I could not have done it without this book, it guides you through the pain, the anger, the turmoil and the eventual understanding of divorce. Most of the information in the book is almost surreal, like they wrote it with YOU personally in mind. Whenever I had a particularly upsetting day or started to think about the divorce, I would pick up the book and keep working, it helped keep me sane. The book really puts everything in perspective and helps you to develop into a whole person again. I highly recommend this book to anyone who knows WHERE they want to go, but doesn't have a clue how to get there. |
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An American reader (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-10 00:00>
This book is a very helpful tool for anyone who is experiencing the pain and emotional turmoil of a break-up, whether you were married or not, whether you were the "Dumper" or "Dumpee." I especially liked the comparison of climbing the moutain, taking each level and learning those lessons at each level - and that sometimes you would come to an understanding at one level and as you moved up to the next, you may realize there was still more to learn "back there" where you had just left, at a lower level of the mountain. But the book ALLOWS you to understand that these feelings are a process, that there is no easy or orderly way to experience them, and that it's perfectly OK to step up the moutain and then back down a couple of steps, up again, down again - until you come to understand it all and allow yourself to experience that understanding. Each step helps you to deal with the last, and you don't have to "finish" in one area before you move onto the next. You learn in your own way and your own time, yet the words are always there to comfort, encourage and teach you. This book put it all in perspective for me, gave me permission to feel pain and confusion, and helped me through each phase of my struggle, reminding me of my worth and teaching me the most important lesson of all - which is to take care of and value myself. I recommend it highly. |
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Terri Cornish (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-10 00:00>
The book Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends was one of the things that really helped me get thru my own divorce process and create a whole new wonderful life. It truly showed me that my feelings and reactions were normal and that they could be worked thru. After all Bruce Fisher and Robert Alberti worked with people who were rebuilding their lives after divorce for over 25 years and they ought to know. The book has a style that is very very readable. You can begin at the beginning and read it straight thru or open it to just the chapter that is appropriate for you at that moment, like "Loneliness", "Anger". "Self-Worth", or "Sex". The book is built around the metaphor of climbing a mountain, and you are shown just how achievable it is to successfully rebuild your life one doable step at a time. Once you reach the top of the mountain you experience a wonderful sight of a new you and a new life. As Alberti says, "So prepare yourself for a journey. Pack up your optimism, your hopes for the future. Discard your excess baggage. And the Rebuilding mountain lies ahead for you." If you are only going to buy one book to get yourself thru the divorce process this is the one. I can't recommend this book more highly. Other books I would recommend are How to Survive the Loss of a Love by Colgrove, Bloomfield, and McWilliams, Spiritual Divorce by Debbie Ford, Life after Divorce by Sharon Wegscheider-Cruse, and Finding Love (Again!) by Connie Merritt. |
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