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The Introvert Advantage: How to Thrive in an Extrovert World (平装)
by Marti Olsen Laney
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Personality differences, Interpersonal skills, Relationship, Social science |
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| MSL Pointer Review:
An excellent resource that helps us understand the reality of an introvert in an extroverted world. |
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Paul D. Tieger, co-author of Do What You Are, USA
<2008-04-29 00:00>
Filled with Aha! moments of recognition, Dr. Laney's book will help millions of introverts . . . |
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Dr. Bernardo J. Carducci, author of Shyness: A Bold New Approach, USA
<2008-04-29 00:00>
Its clear, step-by-step advice will help introverts recognize and capitalize on their unique strengths. |
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Rebecca Johnson (MSL quote), USA
<2008-04-29 00:00>
"Introverts are like a rechargeable battery. They need to stop expending energy and rest in order to recharge. Extroverts are like solar panels that need the sun to recharge. Extroverts need to be out and about to refuel." ~Marti Olsen Laney
Imagine feeling alone in a crowd, preferring a quiet corner to the limelight and feeling overwhelmed by phones, parties and office meetings. Do people often think you are shy, aloof or antisocial? If you are an introvert, you are going to completely relate to a variety of comments that are like fireworks going off in recognition of truth. Introverts can hide their talents and only show them in certain situations.
Through reading this wonderful and often humorous book, you will be assured that nothing is wrong with you. In fact, there is a connection between Introversion and Intelligence.
What is fascinating is how Marti Olsen Laney explains how introverts create energy in the opposite way extroverts do. I'm often drained of all energy after being with people for extended periods of time, but being with a book can set me on fire with creativity and energy. I can handle small groups and connecting with familiar faces can actually energize me, but after three hours, I want to find a more peaceful setting.
This book helped me understand why I have deeper thoughts when I'm by myself than in a group setting. People seem to not know who I am in the "real-world," but online, I have found a place to show my true self. This is apparently because introverts are more comfortable with writing than speaking in public.
Are You an Introvert?
Are you detail oriented yet details in public spaces overwhelm you?
Do you prefer small parties with intimate friends?
Do you avoid crowds?
Would you rather be reading books in bed in your pajamas?
Do you get tired when you are around people, but energized when alone?
Do you feel guilty about having to "limit" your social experiences so you can survive?
Does your mind sometimes go blank in group situations?
Do you dislike being interrupted in the middle of a project?
The author has divided her comments into three main sections. First you find out if you really are an introvert, then you discover how to navigate the extrovert world. The last section explains how you can create the perfect life by "extroverting." This is just another way of saying that an introvert can also shine their light out into the world.
After reading the list of famous introverts, you will see similarities in their personalities. The author also gives a list of movies to add to your "must-see" list. Marti also spends time seeking the in-depth answers to brain chemistry. You will also find out if you are a Right or Left-Brained Introvert.
Then onward to "dating." The "Relationships: Face the Music and Dance" chapter shows how personality types collide, how to meet the challenge and then how to appreciate the differences. Even by reading the chapter on Parenting, I started to understand extroverts in a new way. I find extroverts to be fascinating, yet at times they overwhelm my cozy-sit-in-the-corner cat nature with their tiger tactics. Extroverts just seem so aggressive at times. The world can look a little threatening and a party can be overwhelming.
I love the author's ideas about how to be a sea anemone at a party. I've survived many parties with this tactic. If you are worried about what to say at a party, Marti gives plenty of solutions in the form of openers, sustainers, transitions and closers. Then she dives into the hazards from 9 to 5. This chapter will also shed some light on your personal relationships. Ok, by the time I read "Pack Your Survival Kit" this book had been more than helpful. These tips alone will encourage you to create a more peaceful planet.
"The Introvert Advantage" is an encouraging book for anyone who has felt the pain of being an introvert in an extrovert world. Marti Olsen Laney also shows how it can be equally painful and unfulfilling to remain in a state of seclusion. Through reading thoughtful segments on a daily basis, you can finally start to find balance in your daily existence.
This is a must-read book for all Introverts and the people who love them. The author has a comfortable writing style and you will feel "at home" and find yourself "completely" relating to her experiences. It is rare to find a book where you just fall in love with an author's personality. She is cute, witty and intellectual too. Finally someone out there understands! The author has really done her research.
Highly recommended. Add this book to your Top Ten must-read books this year. After all, it will help you understand 25% of the population.
~The Rebecca Review
Author of Seasoned with Love: A collection of
best-loved recipes inspired by over 40 cultures
A Right-brained "mostly" Introvert (INFP) and proud of it. |
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Mindguy (MSL quote), USA
<2008-04-29 00:00>
I read through her book recently and it is a great confirmation that we introverts have valuable contributions to the world. We are not "wrong", just different. Very empowering, very encouraging. Finally, we can see our unique gifts for what they are, gifts, to ourselves and to the world.
I sat in on a lecture with her recently. She is spot on accurate. Based on feedback from other readers, she is considering writing the next book to take it to the next level. That is, of applying introvert theory to relationships and career choice. Hooray!
Be sure to check out her website and take part in the online discussion forum.
If you get a chance to hear her in person, do it! She is very informative and entertaining.
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K. Duke (MSL quote) , USA
<2008-04-29 00:00>
OMG! What an awesome book. I never realized that I was quite as introverted as I apparently am if you go by the little pop quizzes in the book...but that's NOT a bad thing. Introverts LOVE peace and quiet. Check 1. Introverts relish their privacy and can be quite secretive at times. Check 2. Introverts are watchers and listeners, not talkers. Check 3. Introverts don't need a lot of outside stimulation to be happy and at peace. You won't find them cliff diving or parachuting (as in jumping out of perfectly good airplains...never did understand that one...LOL), or speeding around in Indy cars to get a rush. Check 4. Yup, guess that makes me an introvert.
Introverts are intellectual and tend to be much more intelligent than they're given credit for. They're also VERY imaginative and have creative streaks a mile long. BTW, the pathway through an introverts brain from input to response is much longer than an extrovert's. They tend to make excellent psychologists (big surprise there), and even though introverts account for only 25% of the population, you'll find that many if not most writers, artists, and a large number of entertainers (creative types in general) are introverted.
I guess I don't need to tell you again what that means. In fact, some of the greatest minds in history belonged to introverts, such as Albert Einstein, Eleanor Roosevelt, Queen Elizabeth II, Charles Darwin, Steven Spielberg, Sir Isaac Newton, Jacqueline Kennedy Onasis, Carl Jung....oh, and here's a surprise...Michael Jordan! Now I'd say that's some pretty awesome company to be keeping.
The author writes in such a way that lets the reader know that being introverted isn't bad, just different. And this book isn't JUST for introverts. Extroverts would do well to have a go at this one too because it will help them better understand the introverts that may be in their lives. This book gets a rave review from me. |
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