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Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends, 3rd Edition (Rebuilding Books; For Divorce and Beyond) (平装)
by Bruce Fisher
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Relationship, Marriage, Self help |
| Market price: ¥ 198.00
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¥ 168.00
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| MSL Pointer Review:
Healing, uplifting, and empowering, Rebuilding is one of the top references dealing with the pain and trauma of a relationship that has ended as well as the rebuilding of the life.. |
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Esther Oshiver (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-10 00:00>
...a handbook for the divorcing and divorced that is authentic and which they can employ in the rebuilding of their own lives. |
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Marilyn Anita Dalrymple (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-10 00:00>
I found the book comforting, helpful and realistic - it is going to hurt, and it will not be easy, but you can do it. |
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Florence Kaslow (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-10 00:00>
...deals with the everyday feelings and problems of the divorcing and divorced… hits just the right balance between seriousness and optimism. |
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Stephanie Manley (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-10 00:00>
Going through divorce is difficult, alienating, and painful. I found this book to be a great source of material on the stages of pain that you go through with a divorce. This book takes you through the building blocks of what it will take for you to go through, and ultimately rebuilt from. Some of the topics covered are denial, fear, adaptation, friendship, loneliness, self-worth, transition,love, trust, and future relationships.
I found myself clearly identifying with many of the stages that others go through in a divorce. It was refreshing to hear what you feel is normal and others feel that way too. Fisher and Alberti definately speak with insight, and understanding on this topic. This book was part of the reading along with the a divorce recovery class I took, this book was an important reasource in the class. It is definately worth picking up or checking out at your local library.
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Jaci Rae (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-10 00:00>
When a relationship ends, it feels like a car wreck! Everything hurts, your days become longer your nights become lonelier and the inevitable question of why comes up. Why did that person leave? Why wasn't I good enough? Why didn't I see it coming? Why does it hurt so badly? Why can't I stop the pain? An endless stream seems to conquer your will to move on to the next level of a better tomorrow.
Bruce Fisher and Robert E. Alberti have written a book that can help you understand the why's and get you to the how's...How to rebuild your life. How to get through your day and move on to the next. Excellent book, excellent read.
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An American reader (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-10 00:00>
This book guides the reader through the process and stages that one inevitably faces when going through a divorce. Even if you read it 10 times, each time you will get a different message/insight as important as the first time. It shows the reader at what stage he/she is in the process of healing which is very comforting, knowing that the time of divorce everything is so unsure. It is not a heavy book and can easily be grasped by anyone who puts a little time each day to see where he/she is in this hard yet fulfilling journey. Personally, I found it to be SO VERY TRUE in every step of the way!! I think the best thing that this book can give to every reader is HOPE and the tools not to become cynical in such a trying time. I would suggest it to every one even those people who are not undergoing a divorce because it is rich every page you turn! Can't say enough good things about it! A true life saver! |
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Glenn Pettit (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-10 00:00>
I was lucky enough to get this book just a couple weeks after my wife asked for a divorce, and so I was starting right into the phases of Denial, Anger, and so forth just as I read about them in the book. I read it over the course of 3 weeks, then checked it out again and started over - and the second time, I took my time and actually focused on the exercises at the end of each chapter. By the time I was done, I was pretty much done with hoping for a reconciliation, and the anger is pretty much all gone.
I do recommend having someone to talk to about the exercises in the book - a sort of accountability partner, a friend to whom you can REALLY open up. (Guys, take note of that: You need someone who is willing to listen to your pain, not someone to slug back a couple of cold ones while throwing darts at her picture.) It's important to have someone to talk to about the various topics in each chapter - not just to vent but to discuss the ideas, to focus on your situation and find ways to move on with rebuilding your life.
During my second read, I also took the time to write a long letter of goodbyes, as recommended in the book. (My soon-to-be-ex has never seen that letter, and she doesn't need to.) I was surprised at some of what I wrote, but it really helped to dig up those hidden resentments and now-dashed hopes. By the end of my second read, I was ready to focus on other things besides HER.
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Jean Zimmer (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-10 00:00>
Rebuilding was highly recommended to me by a counsellor. I have found it an incredible resource that not only helps in understanding what went wrong in the relationship but provides insight into the various stages all individuals go through following a separation. It addresses issues of relevance to both the "dumper" and the "dumpee" and opens the door to self-discovery and personal growth. Reading the book is like having a long talk with your best friend. |
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A Canadian reader, Canada
<2007-01-10 00:00>
After my marriage suddenly ended I spent all my time in the self-help section of a major book store chain looking for the one book that would have the answers to help me get over the traumatic break up. I flipped through every book they had on the shelves. I went to through every section that was remotely related. 'Relationships', 'Self-help', 'Divorce' 'Loss', 'Grieving', 'Psychology', etc. I wanted to find that 'quick fix'.
After purchasing a few books that did really nothing for me, a friend recommended this book to me.
I wished that I had found this book earlier. This book is like a relationship bible. It has practical steps on how to get through the pain, talks about the different feelings that you will go through and coming through the other side into your new life just to name a few. There will be times when you read it and will totally identify with what's being said. This book contains many little 'gold nuggets' of information. Little gems of wisdowm sprinkled throughout the book.
This book was the best one out there that I found and it was very much worth the money. This is the only book that you will need. You won't be disappointed.
Have faith and trust that you will recover. I did.
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Debbie Kelley (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-10 00:00>
This book is amazing! It has been really helpful as I am trying to heal from my divorce. I really love the content and advice and all of the great exercises that really help stimulate various thoughts and emotions and are helping me to better understand myself, my relationship, and what I need to do heal myself and be ready for another relationship. As a counselor, I also recommend this book to my clients who are experiencing the loss of a relationship, and I have seen them heal as they go through this book. It's an excellent resource! |
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