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A General Theory of Love (平装)
by Thomas Lewis , Fari Amini , Richard Lannon
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Relationship, Interpersonal skills, Emotions, Love and romance |
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Three dedicated and gifted psychiatrists offer a challenging, eloquent, and passionate integration of insights from research in attachment theory, brain neuroscience, and memory, with profound implications for how relationships, culture, and psychotherapy function. |
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Amazon.com (MSL quote), USA
<2008-03-26 00:00>
Poor, poor science-it gets blamed for everything. While it might be true that some of our alienation and unhappiness stem from a too-rational misunderstanding of emotion, it's also true that science is its own remedy. A General Theory of Love, by San Francisco psychiatrists Thomas Lewis, Fari Amini, and Richard Lannon, is a powerfully humanistic look at the natural history of our deepest feelings, and why a simple hug is often more important than a portfolio full of stock options. Their grasp of neural science is topnotch, but the book is more about humans as social animals and how we relate to others-for once, the brain plays second fiddle to the heart.
Though some of their social analysis is less than fully thought out-surely e-mail isn't a truly unique form of communication, as they suggest-the work as a whole is strong and merits attention. Science, it turns out, does have much to say about our messy feelings and relationships. While much of it could be filed under "common sense," it's nice to know that common sense is replicable. Hard-science types will probably be exasperated with the constant shifts between data and appeals to emotional truths, but the rest of us will see in A General Theory of Love a new synthesis of research and poetry. -Rob Lightner
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Publishers Weekly (MSL quote), USA
<2008-03-26 00:00>
The Beatles may have sounded naive when they assured us that "all you need is love," but they may not have been far off the mark. New research in brain function has proven that love is a human necessity; its absence damages not only individuals, but our whole society. In this stimulating work, psychiatrists Lewis, Amini and Lannon explain how and why our brains have evolved to require consistent bonding and nurturing. They contend that close emotional connections actually change neural patterns in those who engage in them, affecting our sense of self and making empathy and socialization possible. Indeed, the authors insist, "in some important ways, people cannot be stable on their own." Yet American society is structured to frustrate emotional health, they contend: self-sufficiency and materialistic goals are seen as great virtues, while emotional dependence is considered a weakness. Because our culture does not sufficiently value interpersonal relationships, we are plagued by anxiety and depression, narcissism and superficiality, which can lead to violence and self-destructive behaviors. It is futile to try to think our way out of such behaviors, the authors believe, because emotions are not within the intellect's domain. What is needed is healthy bonding from infancy; when this does not occur, the therapist must model it. The authors' utopian vision of emotional health may strike some as vague or conservative to a fault, and the clarity of their thesis is marred by indirect and precious writing. Yet their claim that "what we do inside relationships matters more than any other aspect of human life" is a powerful one. Agent, Carol Mann. 9-city author tour.
Copyright 2000 Reed Business Information, Inc. |
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Library Journal (MSL quote), USA
<2008-03-26 00:00>
A traditional subject of poetry and pop psychology is treated here as a scientific construct. Three psychiatry professors (Univ. of California, San Francisco) cover an impressive vista of research and clinical insights from Freud to contemporary neuroscience. They focus on the limbic brain as the source and conduit of emotions like love. The link between the development of the limbic brain and the development of personality are described here in confident prose. Society is castigated for failing to encourage full-time parenting and other policies that support limbic development and the human need for love. Although the authors sometimes substitute metaphor for empirical support and easily dismiss other perspectives, the book is well written and provides a credible introduction to the neuroscience of emotions. Recommended for academic and larger public libraries.
-Antoinette Brinkman, Southwest Indiana Mental Health Ctr. Lib., Evansville
Copyright 2000 Reed Business Information, Inc. |
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The New York Times Book Review, USA
<2008-03-26 00:00>
Just as you begin to imagine them as spoiled New Age sages, forgathered in the courtyard of a rented Tuscan villa, spinning a modern Symposium as they dip biscotti in vinsanto - they slug back double espressos and stride through the doors of the villa into a state-of-the-art love lab....Like it or not, all of us know only how to play the kind of love our brains have already practiced. In the manner of the best popularizers of science - like Daniel Dennett, author of "Darwin's Dangerous Idea," or Stephen Pinker, untangler of linguistic mysteries - the authors break a path that lay readers can safely follow. |
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The Washington Post Book World, USA
<2008-03-26 00:00>
The bold A General Theory of Love looks to the future, acknowledging how much his left to learn about the biology of love while also celebrating what's been discovered so far....Convincingly connecting love and biology is no easy task. The three authors persuade by discussing the science of love without diluting its mystique....[E]minently readable. |
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Kirkus (MSL quote), USA
<2008-03-26 00:00>
An engrossing argument that emotion plays a profound and perhaps prevailing role in a human being's ability to develop and find happiness. So what else is new? What's new here is a careful explication by three professors of psychiatry at UC/SF that love is the answer, and that love stems from clear and powerful connections in the limbic brain, the middle layer between the neocortex, site of so-called higher-order thinking, and the so-called ``reptilian'' brain, responsible for the lowest levels of survival. Chapters on emotion and relationships argue convincingly that from infancy, all mammals, but human beings in particular, depend on reading and adapting to the emotional signals of others to develop and make their way safely in the world. Those signals are read in the context of what the authors call ``attractors,'' neural networks that classify incoming information, rightly or wrongly, as ``if it conformed to past experience.'' If past experience has been good, the exchange of signals is mutual and reciprocal, that is, loving; if the experience has been bad, emotional signals are blocked or distorted, leading to adults who may be anxious, depressed, or addicted. Changing and developing new attractors, whether in relationships or in therapy, requires years of close contact; drugs can help, but self-help is a ``hoax'' and vaunted psychological insights are ``the popcorn of therapy.'' For reason is for the most part blind to the limbic edifice, and only when science partners with art will people reach their full potential. Taking their own advice, the authors pack the text with examples and similes drawn from music, literature, and film. Eloquent writing gives weight to a simple, albeit New Age-ish message: feelings count more than intellect in fashioning a healthy psyche. (Charts and illustrations, most not seen) (Author tour) -- Copyright ©2000, Kirkus Associates, LP. All rights reserved. |
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Entertainment Weekly, USA
<2008-03-26 00:00>
Elegant prose that keeps the scientific jargon to a blessed minimum. |
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The Philadephia Inquirer, USA
<2008-03-26 00:00>
A scientific breakthrough... [A] pleasure to read...offers us insight deep as a CAT scan into love's sweetness and delight. |
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Madeline Levine, Ph.D., author of See No Evil, USA
<2008-03-26 00:00>
A revolutionary book. In the tradition of Lewis Thomas, its authors transform hard science into page-turning lyricism. Every page provokes a shock of recognition as we see why the sources of our happiness lie far deeper in our brains than material goods, traditional psychotherapy, or self-help books have the power to reach. A reference book on life, this work deserves to be read and reread. It goes to the heart of what it means to be human. |
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Leonard Shlain, M.D., author of The Alphabet Versus the Goddess and Art & Physics, USA
<2008-03-26 00:00>
Advancing a thesis as exciting in its way as Einstein's general theory of relativity, A General Theory of Love forges a wealth of fresh scientific research into a coherent thesis about the role of intimacy in our lives that is as eloquent as it is persuasive. |
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