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Why Men Marry Bitches: A Woman's Guide to Winning Her Man's Heart (平装)
by Sherry Argov
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| MSL Pointer Review:
Liberating, empowering, and full of practical dating tips and strategies, this is a book all women have to read about men. |
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Marilyn (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-08 00:00>
I'm almost finished reading this book and let me tell you, in just a couple of days my fiance has changed so much in the way he acts towards me it's quite unbelievable. I don't know if it's just coincidence, but either way, this book has already helped me so much. I was feeling discontent and down for a while because of the distance I sensed from him and the changes I felt after being engaged. But this little book opened my eyes to the "secrets" about men that are not so obvious to women until they are told and perhaps retold here and there... Now the intentions behind some of his actions are so obvious I want to roll my eyes in front of him, but have to contain myself, so I just smile and nod my head. I know soon enough those same actions that are annoying and create reactions from me, will eventually disappear. There are some parts in the book that I skimmed over because I felt it didn't refer to me as much, seemed more directed towards ladies in the dating scene, but still useful knowledge - Overall great book if you need a pick me up, and also to have as a reference in those down moments in a relationship when a friend is not around - It's only so liberating and empowering when woman speak their mind and stand their ground in relationships, using their intelligence to get what they want and not be so easily taken advantage of.
I think the bottom line is for women to position themselves in a place where no matter what happens, if a guy rejects you, cheats on you, grows distant, or you're not coming across the guy you want to marry, your whole world will not crumble. Because your whole world is not him or just about finding him, but several things...
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An American reader (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-08 00:00>
The point in life is to find out what makes YOU tick, what do YOU love about life? People are very attracted to those who are passionate about about their lives. Most importantly, YOU will like yourself a whole lot better if you're not acting like somebody's puppet. It is worth noting that the world treats you as you treat yourself...
Contrary to what women have been taught, we need to put ourselves first and assume the Captain of My Own Ship attitude in relationships. We aren't meant to be reduced to the role of First-Mate. We understand when our guys take care of themselves by: going to the gym, rescheduling a date because of an important presentation first thing in morning, spending time with their buddies, honoring previous commitments made with others regardless that WE want to see them, etc. How about demonstrating that same loyalty to ourselves?
Ladies, it is so easy to exhibit the 'get over yourself' attitude with a guy who's misbehaving if you don't care...and then do a complete 180 with the man who floats our boat.
We then lament that God is playing a cruel joke on us and doesn't want us to be truly happy... that we should 'settle', instead. Now put yourself in the guy's shoes. Don't you enjoy a challenge? Sure, the point is to win... eventually, that is.
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Sarah Ivask (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-08 00:00>
Why Men Marry Bitches is the best book on relationships. Whenever my male friends read through the book they say, "Wow. She is 100% right. How did she get this information?"
What I love so much about this book is that it shows you how men view commitment, and the REAL reasons why men don't want to get involved. In the book, men reveal that they want an emotional connection as much as women do, but often feel they aren't "special" because most women seem like they want a commitment... with anybody. Doesn't matter who the guy is, she wants a commitment before she knows his middle name. And Argov explains with crystal clarity exactly what turns men off, and how a few small modifications in a woman's words or actions makes all the difference in the world.
For example, the author explains that women sometimes ask questions or say things like "Where is this going?" or "What are your intentions?" before she even knows where the guy lives. When a guy gets those types of questions, he automatically assumes she is in love with "the idea" of a commitment, or that she's in love with "the wedding" or what a relationship represents. At that point he keeps her at arm's length, because (as men explain in their own words) what they dream of is a woman who is in love... with who he is! She won't just commit to anyone.
Argov has a rare ability to make you laugh and at the same time helps you realize how to do better. It's a feel good read that is entertaining and brilliant at the same time. You walk away feeling like you stand a little taller, and that men are likeable, sensitive and human. If you've ever wondered why most relationships stall after two or three months, after reading this book, you’ll get it.
What I love most is the fact that Argov doesn't tell you what you are doing wrong...she explains how you can do it right. She never talks down to the reader. She doesn't bash men. She even makes fun of herself. She gives you the feeling that she's down to earth and real, and that she's kicking back over a beer with you hanging out and cheering you up like a sister would. But at the same time, she gives the kind of seasoned advice that a relative or best friend would give about dignity and pride. And of course, she shows you how to turn the typical dating dynamic around so that he comes away feeling like commitment is his idea!
If you buy this book and get past the title - you will find it refreshing, hilariously funny, and extremely enlightening. I never give 5 stars for anything. But this one is 5 star worthy because of the information... as well as the entertainment comedy value. You'll laugh out loud reading it. |
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Mel (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-08 00:00>
Don't play hard to get. But don't be easy to get, either. Qualify a man before you share the most precious part of your soul with him.
If enough women will take Sherry's revelations to heart, fewer men would be jerks. Sure, some of them have character flaws, but others who are otherwise decent human beings will push the envelope. Would you put up with reckless behavior toward your relationship from your friends, families, or anyone else? Well, then... When they experience women's refusal to put up with unacceptable behavior on a massive level, they will change - as Sherry points out, they want relationships, too. Sometimes it is necessary to delay instant gratification and go for the gold by sticking to your guns. A fringe benefit will manifest when you hold yourselves in high regard - his regard of you increases immensely!
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Pearl (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-08 00:00>
Stop watching all that newlywed celebrity reality show nonsense. Quit asking your dysfunctional family for dating advice. Instead read this funny, empowering book and just be happy, with or without a man.
This book's bitch is a woman who figures out if a man truly loves her with a no-tears approach.
Getting the facts directly from the source, i.e., real men, Sherry reveals how to determine if you're with a bad boy or a good man so if you're with a bad boy, you can dump him and save a tree because you'll be buying less Kleenex for sure. Even if you're with a good man, you need to read the chapter about female button pushing. It's shockingly true! |
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Mike Schwartz (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-08 00:00>
What I like about this book is that it elevates women. And, it simply shares what men truly think. Women are told that when all a woman has going for herself is looks or sexuality, a man will become bored very quickly. Nor will he view the woman as having long-term potential. As a man, I was surprised as to how many male perceptions were 100% accurate. The information is spot on.
The interesting thing about the book is that the author makes it clear she has interviewed quite a lot of men, and judging by the autheenticity of the excerpts, it definitely comes from the source - men. I just kept laughing because some of the things men said in the book I've heard a million times when having cold beers with the guys. The book explains to women that men don't get into a commitment the same way women do. When a woman asks, "Where is this going?" or she makes it clear she won't "waste her time" in a dead-end relationship, what a guy is thinking is that the girl is in love with the idea of locking down a guy, and that it has nothing to do with who the guy is. This is the real reason relationships stall after three months. The book is also hysterically funny. This book should be required reading for all women.
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An American reader (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-08 00:00>
This is such an awsome book. I read the first book (Why men love bitches) so quickly that I wanted more and bought this as well. It was so validating yet so full of information on how to truely play the game of relationships. I've been wanting information like this for so long... thank God for Sherry Argov! Maybe her next book should be why men stay married to bitches!!! I loved every bit of it!! Very funny and informative! |
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Brynna Malen (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-08 00:00>
Sherry Argov is amazing, insightful and gutwrenchingly honest in both her new book, Why Men Marry Bitches: A Woman's Guide to Winning her Man's Heart, just as she was in her original book, Why Men Love Bitches: from Doormat to Dreamgirl. Sherry has created a book that will empower women to understand that they do not have to put up with unsatisfactory and disrespectful behavior and treatment from men. She shows all women how to become a "bitch", or an independent, loving yet strong and desirable woman, and how to decipher the difference between a good man and a bad one. I strongly recommend this book for every hetero- sexual woman at all ages having trouble "reading" the opposite sex. A fantastic read! |
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An American reader (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-08 00:00>
This book does not compare to her first book. In fact, if you read the first book, you don't need this book at all. I'm not sure at all why she even wrote this book when the first one was very funny and informative.
This book seems to take some ideas from the first book (very few of them) and recycles them. It gives anecdotes that are too long, not very interesting or funny, and seem to be there just to fill the pages. If you find yourself in a relationship where you are being taken for granted, her other book will help restore your self esteem and the balance in the relationship.
This book will not help you get married, or find the right guy to marry. The author herself is not married, and from the information I can find, has never been, so I'm not surprised she can't give advice on this. She does give good advice in her first book on how to hold one's own while dating in order to be respected in a relationship, which is valuable information on its own, but that is all she is helpful with. She also has a talk show on the radio and gives relationship advice, but again, as someone who is not married, I'm not sure how much of an expert she is.
I really don't recommend this book. I recommend her first book only. If you still think you might want to buy this book, I would check it out first at a library or book store so you can see for yourself that the information is sparse and redundant. While her first book was terrific, I suspect she was still flying high on its success and was offered the opportunity to write a second book, and took it, even though she had nothing left to say. It took several years for her to finish it (to gather information to put in it) and she still has a book that seems unfinished (and in all these years she still never got married). I don't see a point in taking advice from a woman on getting a guy to marry you when she was not successful in this.
There is one chapter in this book that was interesting (the chapter on men's opinins) but it is too short, and can easily be read in a bookstore. Unlike the first book, which I've read two or three times, I know I won't read this one again (I gave it away) and I found myself starting to skim parts where there was no substance, just words to fill up pages that did not help the reader. |
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