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Dating Rocks!: The 21 Smartest Moves Women Make for Love (Paperback)
by Steve Nakamoto
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Dating, Relationship, Self-help |
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An entertaining eyeopener, Dating Rocks would be a great addition to any single woman's library. |
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Author: Steve Nakamoto
Publisher: Java Books
Pub. in: November, 2005
ISBN: 0967089344
Pages: 240
Measurements: 8.5 x 5.5 x 0.7 inches
Origin of product: USA
Order code: BA00482
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Dating Rocks is a sensible, insightful view into the mind of a man and what he wants out of a relationship. It is appropriate for any female wanting a mature, adult relationship with a man and gives her specific and detailed guidance on how to achieve it. Nakamoto writes in easy to understand language, using the same format for each chapter that makes the information easily accessible. The chapters are broken down into simple steps, making the information manageable. He provides the reader with challenges for each step and thoughtful advice about looks, charm, honesty, loyalty and love.
Dating Rocks covers all areas of dating, beginning with presenting yourself to men as an attractive, available woman who is well put together, mature and highly desirable. Nakamoto shows ways to make yourself a better person in order to be a contributing part of a two sided relationship. He moves into what a healthy happy relationship should and should not be, tackling the chemistry a couple feels in a sensitive way. Then he shows the importance of maintaining that relationship so you can continue in a partnership that will bring you happiness for a lifetime.
A must read for those inexperienced at dating, whether being young or newly single. Nakamoto's self-improvement tips are right on the mark, even for married women.
(From quoting Readers Reviews, USA)
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General readers
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Steve Nakamoto is a former human relations/communications instructor for Dale Carnegie & Associates and personal development/Life Mastery trainer for world-renowned motivation and peak-performance expert Tony Robbins. Steve has also spent several years as an international tour director taking clients on first-class vacation trips. With more than 200 cruises, Club Med vacations, Singles’ Ski Weeks, and escorted vacation tours, the author has had a lot of first-hand experience learning about men and women of all ages, backgrounds, and cultures. His first book, Men Are Like Fish: What Every Woman Needs to Know about Catching a Man, received Honorable Mention recognition in the Writer’s Digest 2000 Self-Published Non-Fiction Book Awards. That book went on to sell foreign language translation rights to Spain, Japan, Israel, Taiwan, Korea, Thailand, Russia, and the Czech Republic. Steve has appeared on over 220 radio and television talk shows including NBC’s The Other Half starring Dick Clark, Mario Lopez, Dorian Gregory, and Danny Bonaduce. He currently serves as the featured dating/relationship expert on iVillage.com’s popular "Ask Mr. Answer Man" online discussion board where he offers an honest male perspective on day-to-day issues to women around the world.
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From the Publisher:
Dating Rocks is a 240 page dating manifesto that outlines everything a woman should do to find, date and keep a man - from being aware of her physical appearance to honing her listening skills.
The best part of this book is Nakamoto’s wit as he helps the reader along. As a former Dale Carnegie instructor, personal development trainer, and international tour director, Nakamoto knows how to tell a story. There’s a rather amusing tale of how he and a friend had sworn off all women as gold-diggers since all of the women they encountered at an upscale nightclub would only go out with them once. A friend of theirs tells them, "The problem isn’t that these women are gold-diggers. It’s that you guys unfortunately can’t afford them." Lesson to be learned from such wise words: don’t try to place the blame for your lousy love life on someone or something else; be proactive, take control of your love life, and good things will follow.
The book follows a rigid but successful format. Each chapter begins with a nifty quote from a major author or artist, past or present. For instance, Chapter 13 titled "Competition," opens with a quote from Margaret Halsey: "The great disadvantage of being in a rat race is that it is humiliating. The competitors in a rat race are by definition rodents." An honest male prospective that summarizes what is to be learned in the chapter follows these quotes. Nakamoto also includes an anecdote from his life such as the email he received from a woman complaining about an aspect of her dating life, followed by a list of steps on how to successfully accomplish whatever the theme of the chapter happens to be.
Nakamoto, is not new to the "how to catch a man arena." His previous book, Men are like Fish: Everything a Woman Needs to Know about Catching a Man, was a funny, intelligent look at the dating scene with tips on how to not only initiate a great relationship but enhance the one you are in. In his latest book he offers an honest and refreshing male perspective that any woman can use if she finds herself in a dating slump. Unlike many of the dating books out there, he doesn’t send the message that women should wait for a man to decide what he wants to do about being together but instead he teaches women how to be proactive when it comes to their love life. He tells them to put themselves first - their needs, wants, and desires. Ladies, you can’t get any better advice than that.
In Dating Rocks you will find no catchy phrases and no antiquated ideals, just good solid advice (that may or may not net you a man), but along the way will provide you with a great deal of fun, insight and personal growth.
(Tamika Johnson for ForewordReviews.com)
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Lori Key (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-08 00:00>
As I am now reading Dating Rocks for the second time, I am reminded that the overall effect of reading Steve Nakamoto is a welcome boost of optimism. And if there is any realm in which a negative outlook is poorly rewarded, it's romance. As an unexpected bonus, I was motivated to become a better friend, sister and daughter as well as lover.
These books are useful even to those not currently pursuing relationships for the sheer pleasure of being reminded that we can be happy or sad during our one shot at life, so why not chose the brighter way?
These books are useful even to those not currently pursuing relationships for the sheer pleasure of being reminded that we can be happy or sad during our one shot at life, so why not chose the brighter way?
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Sarah (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-08 00:00>
I received this book as a gift. I wasn't sure what to expect when I started to read it, because I'm skeptical of relationship books in general. The subtitle, "The 21 Smartest Moves Women Make For Love" kind of scared me into thinking that this book might be an updated version of "The Rules" in disguise. Thankfully, it isn't. I was also relieved to discover this is NOT a book about how to meet men. Instead, Dating Rocks combines psychology, self-help, and practical advice, all in one entertaining and enlightening book. Dating Rocks is not simply a book about dating. The book gives realistic suggestions for making better decisions, and improving self-esteem. I wish I had read this book years ago.
Each chapter of Dating Rocks features stories, quotes, advice, and more. The author, Steve Nakamoto, encourages women to take responsibility for their past mistakes and take the future into their own hands. Dating Rocks teaches women to be more productive and proactive in the choices they make. Making smarter decisions will yield positive results. I think this book should be required reading material for every person, male or female, whether single or married. Dating Rocks was written by a man, which is a nice change of pace. So many women get their advice and opinions about relationships ONLY from other women, which means they lack the insight that could be gained from an honest and unbiased male perspective.
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Robin Newman (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-08 00:00>
Dating Rocks! tells it like it is from a man's perspective... with honesty and constructive advice. It's not that a man is dictating what to do, but rather, he is sharing what he sees... reflecting on the common faux pas women make but are often unaware of. Examples in the book are mostly women's stories of challenge, with four female contributors, so the book offers a unique and balanced perspective... not just reflecting the author's take on things.
Nakomoto provides strategic guidance on how to live your best life so you can attract a soulmate who will stand the test of time. And, a big part of that is knowing how to present yourself by making the most of your assets, and living fully and more spiritually. He is right in suggest- ing that this will make you that much more irresistible and self confident.
"What To Do Now" sections provide constructive steps the reader may take, and he even offers a free Bonus Special Report. Cool extra for gals looking for that much more!.
The book's format is very accessible, and it's smartly written. I especially like the charts and light-hearted illustrations, making Dating Rocks! a worthwhile read that treats a serious subject for singles with a smile. With this book in hand, you can truly shake up your social life for the better!
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Jo Montana (MSL quote), USA
<2007-01-08 00:00>
I've recently re-entered the dating world after some time off and have found this book to be helpful in getting back into the swing of things. Its 21 chapters cover most of the important aspects of dating life, from considering the relationship you have with yourself and on to evaluating the relationship that you build with another through its early stages. It's concise and offers common sense tips that one may forget in every day life. What I like best about the book is its comic relief (cartoons) and, more importantly, its hopeful attitude as I believe that this quality will take you far in any pursuit. Consider this quote from Thoreau: "I have learned, that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours." Buy this book and get on your way. For additional reading, I also recommend The Boyfriend Test by Wendy Walsh. Good luck! |
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