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Bad Childhood - Good Life: How to Blossom and Thrive in Spite of an Unhappy Childhood (Hardcover)
by Laura Schlessinger
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Author: Laura Schlessinger
Publisher: HarperCollins
Pub. in: January, 2006
ISBN: 006057786X
Pages: 272
Measurements: 8.3 x 5.7 x 1.1 inches
Origin of product: USA
Order code: BA01495
Other information: B000TYFV5G
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Dr. Laura has written a book that gets to the heart of "bad childhood" issues. The way you are made to feel guilty and responsible for everything and everyone, and how that resonates - often in surprising ways - in your adult life. After reading this book, I grieved anew for my childhood, because I understood it better. Then, when the grieving passed, I felt thankful. God has blessed me with wonderful relationships in my adult life. Dr. Laura stresses the importance of focusing on those types of relationships, and disabling the "re-play" button. It's not easy, but very worth it.
She also points out that many of the people she has worked with credit their recovery to a relationship with God. This has been my reality as well. In fact, I believe God was helping me survive and stay sane before I had the capacity to realize I was being hurt at all.
My recommendation is for anyone who has had any form of a "Bad Childhood" to consider this book, and to also consider talking to God. Not meant in a "preachy" way, just with caring. (From quoting a guest reviewer, USA)
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Laura Catherine Schlessinger (born January 16, 1947) is an American radio host, author and conservative commentator. Once a professional counselor, Schlessinger offers advice to callers every day on her nationally-syndicated radio show, The Dr. Laura Program, which airs through Premiere Radio Networks.
Schlessinger's callers ask questions about issues affecting their lives, including sex outside of marriage, premarital cohabitation, intentional single parenthood, day care in lieu of parents staying home to raise their children, the viewing of pornography, marrying too quickly or out of desperation, permissive parenting (also known as laissez-faire parenting), abortion, easy or no-fault divorce, and same-sex marriage. Her radio program often features short editorial monologues on these and other social and political topics, followed by her characteristically direct responses to callers' questions and moral dilemmas. Certain aspects of feminism are often discussed on her website (Dr. Laura was a self-claimed feminist in the 1970s).
She has also authored numerous self-help books, including the best-selling Ten Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up Their Lives, and several religious books. The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands has been her most successful book thus far.
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In this important book, Dr. Laura Schlessinger shows men and women that they can have a Good Life no matter how Bad their Childhood.
For each of us, there is a connection between our early family dynamics and experiences and our current attitudes and decisions. Many of the people Dr. Laura has helped did not realize how their histories impacted their adult lives, or how their choices in people, repetitive situations, and decisions - even their emotional reactions - were connected to those early negative experiences, playing a major role in their current unhappiness.
For these people and millions like them, too much time is dedicated to repeating the ugly dynamics of childhood in a vain attempt to repair or cope with deep hurt and longings. Too often they use their emotional pain to control others or excuse their own inappropriate and destructive behaviors. Some turn to therapy, only to find themselves trapped in their self-pitying victim mode, robbed of optimism, confidence, and growth.
Dr. Laura will help you realize that no matter what circumstances you came from or currently live in, you are ultimately responsible for how you react to them. The acceptance of this basic truth is the source of your power to secure the Good Life you long for. In her signature straightforward style, with real-life examples, Dr. Laura shows you what you will gain by not being satisfied with an identity as a victim, or even as a survivor - but striving to be a victor!
In Bad Childhood - Good Life, Dr. Laura will guide you to accept the truth of the assaults on your psyche and soul, understand your unique coping style and how it impacts your daily thoughts and actions, and help you embrace a life of more peace and happiness.
Bad Childhood - Good Life comes from a compassionate and personal place. Dr. Laura also reveals some of her own experiences with a difficult childhood and what efforts it took to attain a Good Life. She writes, ""My resilience has paid off, and I'm doing the best I can with what I've got."" Now you can, too.
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Jill Lightner(MSL quote), USA
<2008-09-23 00:00>
With her characteristically pointed advice and take-no-prisoners attitude, Dr. Laura's book Bad Childhood - Good Life tackles one of the most basic questions of therapy: How can a person effectively move past the injuries of a bad childhood? Her answer will be familiar to her fans - look at your current behavior and modify what you can change rather than simply venting your anger or allowing yourself to ever be victimized again. Forget about simply accepting or forgiving your parents for their errors - Dr. Laura extols the virtues of conquering. Through excerpts from her radio show and letters from her listeners, she illustrates her points about guilt, anger and fear in personalized accounts from individuals. Short lists and question/answer sections make for an easy read that allows you to smoothly fast forward and backtrack to the topics you find most relevant at the moment - and numerous references to other chapters and her website provide all the additional information you could want. Faith is a subtle but definite component; some readers will find it the most helpful part of the book while it decidedly won't appeal to others.
Not everyone will agree with - or appreciate - her succinct manner that drives right to the root of issues. Like her show, the book presents absolutes rather than possible alternatives. For readers looking for a definitive method for moving past childhood issues, Dr. Laura might offer the solution. |
From Publishers Weekly(MSL quote), USA
<2008-09-23 00:00>
Tis the season, right? For childhood issues to flare up just in time for the trip home for the holidays. Instead of resolving to lose those pesky 10 pounds, 2006 may be the perfect time to stop letting a bad childhood ruin another year, says Schlessinger, author of seven New York Times bestsellers and host of an internationally syndicated radio talk show. Schlessinger uses radio listeners' call-ins, her own stories and a little help from Carly Simon to help adults stuck in the past break free from destructive patterns and move peaceably forward. "The truth is that there is always a battle between the history and the present," she writes. Schlessinger tailors her advice staples (take charge, get tough, be positive, live for something other than yourself) toward securing victory over childhood traumas by admonishing readers against thinking emotionally about emotional subjects, advocating black and white reasoning (one listener's mother is deemed "evil") and proposing an amoeba-brainless and unthinking-constitutes a workable decision making model. Readers already of the Schlessinger school will find much here to appreciate, though it's doubtful this will win her any new fans. |
From a guest reviewer (MSL quote), USA
<2008-09-23 00:00>
As a "survivor" of an alcoholic mother & the resulting constant parental fighting during my childhood, I've had "knee-jerk" reactions to the challenges and stresses in all facets of my life. Reading this very well-written book now causes me to pause; to "think" and make a conscious choice about how I will react. Thanks to the logic and insights written by Dr. Laura (along with earlier therapy) I now feel a freedom from the choke-hold these childhood memories have had on life- simply by recognizing my strength in developing life skills and abilities - in spite of them. |
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