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What Southern Women Know (That Every Woman Should): Timeless Secrets to Get Everything you Want in Love, Life, and Work (Paperback) (Paperback)
by Ronda Rich
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American South, Demographic differences, Cultural studies, Female reading |
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| MSL Pointer Review:
Simple, fun, inspiring and full of humor, this book tells how women are raised in the Southern USA, but it also talks about the lost art of a civilized society. |
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Author: Ronda Rich
Publisher: Perigee Trade
Pub. in: September, 2000
ISBN: 0399526277
Pages: 240
Measurements: 7.8 x 5.1 x 0.7 inches
Origin of product: USA
Order code: BA01056
Other information: ISBN-13: 978-0399526275
Language: American English
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- Awards & Credential -
One of our top recommendations to female readers. |
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The main theme of the book runs along the lines of "seduce and enjoy, and if you can't - seduce and destroy" - in other words it's charm all the way with great zest; fighting spirit, honoring first and foremost family and tradition and wholehearted love and respect for others, as long as they treat you well, but if they step on your toes, watch out.
Other than portraying the stereotype of a Southern woman, the author offers suggestions and advice some of which is sound and some of which may be understandable from a woman's perspective, but not necessarily healthy. Just as women in general are known to be full of contraditions, so is the advice that runs through this book - some examples of using charm in many different situations are brilliant. On the other hand, you'll encounter a struggle to be proper and ethical, advice to think positively, believe in the good, and to look at situations in optimistic light mixed with hold on patiently to your grievances (2 - 5 years or more if need be) until the timing is perfect to dish out your revenge. (That's definitely not good for one's health.) Then in the next section, you'll find "let bygones be bygones".
And yes, there is an advice in the book to be used in negotiations. Since most of the books on negotiation out there are written by guys, here is how it works from Southern woman's perspective - together with the negotiation skills available through other books and sources, wear a short skirt [the shorter the skirt you wear, the better deal you can count on getting], use charm all the way, and let your opponent sizzle (for his own good) - very soon he won't know what hit him.
All in all, it is an entertaining book.
(From quoting Laura De Giorgio, USA)
Target readers:
Highly recommended to all female readers who can read in English.
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Ronda Rich is a Southern woman who was trained to be courteous, educated to be knowledgeable, and inspired by tradition to be strong and persistent. A former sports writer and director of corporate communications, she is now a freelance marketing and public relations consultant.
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From Publisher
A Southern Belle Primer meets The Rules in this engaging volume that explains the mystique of Southern women and why they always get what they want, and shows women how to get the same kind of romantic, professional, and personal success.
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People (MSL quote), USA
<2007-11-12 00:00>
Hilarious anecdotes about Dixie Chicks who have succeeded in life and love. |
The Tennessean (Nashville, MSL quote)., USA
<2007-11-12 00:00>
Reading her book is like watching a hilarious episode of the sitcom Designing Women. |
Larry Shealy (MSL quote), USA
<2007-11-13 00:00>
Lord, what a fun, delightful read. There are two things I like about this book. First, this is a true, Southern voice in our finest, oral tradition. Second,there is value for men in the insider perspective on that most precious Southern ideal...the Southern lady...a.k.a. the Belle. Even men of the South (who ought to have learned by now) are often mystified by this phenomenon...and all Southern women have some Belle in them. For any man who has been strafed by a Southern woman and is still trying to figure out what hit him,this book might provide a clue; at least help his understanding of the process. And any woman who wants her fellow to understand her, might want to get a highlighter out and share. Read carefully, a man might even begin to get a glimmer of understanding of how he's being handled, and most importantly, why it feels so good. For women, this is a book about reaching full potential as a woman without diminishing femininity; rather using it to maximum advantage. This book will polarize some. It has to. But look deeper. There is gold, emotional gold, in these stories. Well done. |
Patricia (MSL quote), USA
<2007-11-13 00:00>
I had to laugh when I read the Virginia reviewer's comments then I had to write. This is my first review but I'm doing it because I feel so strongly about this book. This is one of the finest books that women who want to be the truest kind of ladies can read. Ms. Rich's philosophy of "nice and kindness" is exactly what should be practiced in today's harsh world. Too many people are quick to be unkind and act ugly. In this lovely book, repeated emphasis is put on being thoughtful, witty, compassionate and kind.
I, for one, believe that we need more people who will "compliment not criticize" as the author points out. She strongly asserts that praise should be shared (that's why I'm writing) and unkind words should be restrained. By doing this, she points out, you create a gentler environment for yourself and others.
It's sad when others can be so vocally critical but, thankfully, they're the minority (or so I choose to be believe).
If you're looking for a book that will make you feel better about yourself, choose this book. If you're looking for a book that will make you laugh, don't miss this one. If you're looking for a book that will guide you toward greater success in life both personally and professionally, this is the book for you.
It works. When you treat others with thoughtfulness and kindness, they give you the same back. It's that easy. And that pleasant.
I also recommend the sequel to this book, What Southern Women Know About Flirting. I didn't think that at my age (in my fifties), I needed it. But, my goodness, I learned a lot as it pertains to "social flirting" which Ms. Rich says is the "art of making others feel good about themselves so that they feel good about you."
Now, isn't that a nice idea? |
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